Our Lay Leadership
Deacons and Elders: Non-Clergical Service in Three-Year Terms
"The Lord said to Moses: 'Bring me seventy of Israel's elders who are known to you as leaders and officials among the people. Have them come to the Tent of Meeting, that they may stand there with you. I will come down and speak with you there, and I will take of the Spirit that is on you and put the Spirit on them. They will help you carry the burden of the people so that you will not have to carry it alone.' " Numbers 11:14–17
In addition to paid staff, a Presbyterian church relies upon two volunteer bodies of lay (not clergically ordained) church members: the Board of Deacons and Session.
Our Board of Deacons
Deacons are the pastor’s fifteen extra pairs of hands, feet, eyes, and ears. Each May, the Graham Memorial Presbyterian Church Nominating Committee submits to Session five church-member candidates to serve three-year terms as deacons beginning the following January. Deacons may serve two consecutive three-year terms. After the second term, they are ineligible for re-election for a period of one year. The board consists of 15 deacons at all times, including one who accepts responsibility as Moderator of the Board. Church members do not have to wait to be considered for nomination. Any member who feels a calling to serve in the compassionate capacity of deacon may contact the Moderator of the Board of Deacons at any time to request future nomination. Email the Moderator.
Although deacons may be any age over 21, either male or female, they share two characteristics that are obvious in all that they say and do: they love people, and they love helping people in need. A complete description of deacon attributes and duties appears in the Book of Order, the Constitution of the Presbyterian Church USA. But below are examples of outreach that Graham Memorial Presbyterian Church deacons provide:
- coordinate and dispense emergency food, housing, and transportation
- coordinate the schedule of Coffee Connection hosts
- mentor new church members and non-members, too
- prepare the Holy Communion table for service once each month
- promote use of name badges at worship services
- provide confidential intercessory prayer
- serve Holy Communion to those unable to attend worship services
- sponsor fundraising events that support local ministries
- sponsor postage for Church Note Writers
- sponsor the annual Congregational Picnic at the end of summer
- sponsor the annual Cookies Cocoa 'n' Carols event at Christmas
- visit ill and disabled church members and friends in the community
The Board of Deacons also provides on-going support of the following local charitable ministries:
- Forest Home Ministries
- Golf4Good to benefit Presbyterian Urban Ministries
- God's Extended Hand
- Ladle Fellowship
- Presbyterian Urban Ministries
- Rachel's Women's Center
- Warrior Foundation
| Graham Memorial Presbyterian Church Deacons, 1998 to Present | ||||
| 2014–2017 |
2013–2016 | 2012–2015 | 2011–2014 | 2010–2013 |
| Open | Open | Open | Open | Carol Beatty |
| Vickie McDonald | ||||
| Ron Moody | ||||
| Jan Smith | ||||
| Judi Todd | ||||
| 2009–2012 |
2008–2011 | 2007–2010 | 2006–2009 | 2005–2008 |
| Patti Ireland | Mary Baker | Mary Doyle | Nancy Hoffman | Mary Baker |
| Jon Mosier | Stan Baker | Anna Hengst | Patti Ireland | Brian Creech |
| Barbara Rice | Phil Manion | Scott Koshland | Richard Moore | Lisa Creech |
| Tom Rice | Betty Padgett | Vickie McDonald | Barbara Rice | John Hladon |
| Debra Smith | Judi Todd | Lucille Noack | Tom Rice | Shelby Hladon |
| Debbie Williams | Mary Humphrey | |||
| Debbie Williams | ||||
| Penny Wuerfel | ||||
| 2004–2007 |
2003–2006 | 2002–2005 | 2001–2004 | 2000–2003 |
| Sue Galvin | Vickie McDonald | Carol Beatty | Maria Bernard | Jackie Atencio |
| Anna Hengst | Richard Moore | Lisa Creech | Beverly Dyer | Carol Beatty |
| Scott Koshland | Debbie Bell Smith | Gloria Steele | Sue Galvin | Fred Harris |
| Bill Marty | Andrea Wilson | Mark Whitworth | Roger Locke | Maude Harris |
| Will Marty | Andrew Wilson | Pat Whitworth | Katherine Moore | Vickie McDonald |
| Lucille Noack | Loraine Wolfe | Deborah Rosier | Elizabeth Tipton | |
| Jane Simeral | ||||
| 1999–2002 |
1998–2001 | |||
| Jane Cofelt | Beverly Dyer | |||
| Fred Eckert | Ellen Eddowes | |||
| Pam McKinley | Deborah Rosier | |||
| Cindy Ribant | Rick Ruehlin | |||
| Loraine Wolfe | Patty Schmidt | |||
Session, Our 18 Elders
The word Presbyterian comes to us from presbuteros (also seen as presbyteros), the Greek word for elder. The Presbyterian church government is reliant upon the work of its elders, and collectively, the elders form a body known as Session.
Numerous biblical passages refer to elders as ministers. Today, however, Presbyterian elders are elected officials of faith, dedication, and good judgment. Both men and women may serve as elders. An elder’s lifestyle should demonstrate Christian gospel, both within the church and in the world. Elders exercise church leadership, government, and discipline. They strengthen and nurture the faith and life of the congregation committed to their charge. And although elders are mature Christians, they need not be of a specific age in order to hold office.
The Graham Memorial Presbyterian Church Nominating Committee considers candidates willing to accept elder responsibility for three-year terms and submits those names to Session for approval during the last quarter of the calendar year. At the annual congregational meeting, the fourth Friday in January, the Session Moderator (the pastor) presents elder candidates to the congregation for a vote. That is, a committee of Session nominates elders, but the congregation elects the nominated elders as their representatives.
Our church has three groups of six elders, for a total of 18, at all times. If an elder requests resignation before his/her term expires, Session fills the vacancy in the same manner as original elections—the Nominating Committee recommends a new candidate, who is then elected at the next or a specially called congregational meeting.
Elders may serve two consecutive three-year terms. After the second term, elders are ineligible for re-election for a period of one year. Once inducted, an elder bears his or her title for life. However, only elders currently serving in a term of office may serve on Session.
Session carries out church business duties through committees headed by either elders or deacons appointed by the Session Moderator. Committee members include other elders, deacons, and general members of the congregation. While only elders and deacons may chair any of the eight standing committees, any church member may attend committee meetings, except the Nominating and Personnel committees, whose conversations are confidential.
| Our Session Offices | Year 2010 Officers |
|---|---|
| Clerk of Session | Reed Smith |
| Christian Education | June Mac Leod, Chair |
| Endowment Fund | John Wood,Chair |
| Finance | John Wood, Chair |
| Missions | Frank Spitzer, Chair |
| Nominating | June Mac Leod, Chair |
| Personnel | Donna Ball, Chair |
| Property | Bill McLennan, Chair |
| Worship and Sacrament | Chipp Wilfong, Chair |
| Presbytery Commissioners | Bill McLennan, Ann Steuer |
As the executive branch for the church mission and government, elders share the following responsibilities:
- assisting the pastor in baptisms
- assisting the pastor in deacon and elder ordination
- establishing the annual church budget
- managing church property
- overseeing worship and sacrament of each worship service
- providing employment of non ordained staff
- providing for church program administration
- providing leadership presence at church functions
- receiving new church members
- serving Holy Communion
- supervising church preschool and educational programs
- witnessing to others
The Clerk of Session keeps minutes of all Session meetings and maintains membership rolls, among other records. The Presbytery of San Diego receives a copy of and reviews all church Session minutes and requires Session to hold meetings at least once each quarter. The Graham Memorial Presbyterian Church Session meets monthly, except July.
Church members seeking Nominating Committee consideration of candidacy as an elder may review a complete description of elder attributes and duties in the Book of Order. The next step would be to register interest with the chair of the Nominating Committeee or any ruling (currently serving elder), who will forward the names of elder candidates to the Clerk of Session for referral to the Nominating Committee chair for consideration.
| Graham Memorial Presbyterian Church Ruling Elders, 1998 to Present | ||||
| 2014–2017 |
2013–2016 | 2012–2015 | 2011–2014 | 2010–2013 |
| Open | Open | Open | Open | Sherry Manion |
| Bill McLennan | ||||
| Richard Moore | ||||
| Jane Simeral | ||||
| Ann Steuer | ||||
| Ralph West | ||||
| 2009–2012 |
2008–2011 | 2007–2010 | 2006–2009 | 2005–2008 |
| John Freeman | Donna Ball | Betty Berger | Richard Dukes | Donna Ball |
| Konrad Kerr | James Kaufman | Hilary Doran | Beverly Durckel | J.D. Douglas |
| Steve Loeffler | June Mac Leod | Jane Simeral | Merle Fowler | Carolyn Parry |
| Reed Smith | William Martin | H. Langdon Smith | John Freeman | Gary Smith |
| Ed Taflinger | Frank Spitzer | Robert Swain | Alice Jacobson | Herb Steele |
| Chipp Wilfong | Chipp Wilfong | Frank Wuerfel | Don Steuer | Ward Wilson |
| Ward Wilson | John Wood | Ralph Ziegler | ||
| 2004–2007 |
2003–2006 | 2002–2005 | 2001–2004 | 2000–2003 |
| Lyndsee Arendsee | Virginia Baker | John Barrons | Rick Bernard | Carl Cofelt |
| Betty Berger | David Barrett | J.D. Douglas | Stephen Kasbeer | Richard Dukes |
| Tom Campbell | Alice Jacobson | Bill Edney | Sandra Locke | Linda Kaufman |
| Hilary Doran | Dee Dee Rodeen | Doug Leland | William Miles | Betty Padgett |
| Dennis Grimaud | Don Steuer | Karen Maggio | Brenda Jo Robyn | Renie Ruehlin |
| Jim Perino | Elizabeth Tipton | Gary Smith | Julie Sullivan | Richard Townsend |
| Ron Tretiak | Ward Wilson | Richard Walker | ||
| John Wood | Sterling Wolfe | |||
| 1999–2002 |
1998–2001 | |||
| Jack Bamesberger | John Barrons | |||
| Jack Critchley | Mary Ann Erle | |||
| Dennis Grimaud | Susan Schelkun | |||
| Sally Powers | Richard Sewall | |||
| Richard Sewall | Sterling Wolfe | |||
| John Wood | ||||